Belonging—More Than Fitting In

What Does It Mean to Belong?

🎵 “I see your true colours shining through…” 🎵

Cyndi Lauper’s iconic song True Colors reminds us that belonging is about being seen 🌟 and celebrated 🎉 for who we truly are—no masks, no hiding, just our authentic selves.

If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite fit in, you’re not alone. For those of us with brains wired for curiosity 🤔, wonder ✨, and creativity 🎨, the world can sometimes feel like it’s asking us to dim our true colours 🌈 just to fit in.

But here’s the truth: Belonging isn’t about blending in—it’s about shining in spaces that embrace your light.

The Power of Asking Big Questions

Let’s reflect on three big questions 🌟 to help you reframe how you feel about fitting in versus belonging:

1️⃣ Where do you sit on the continuum of fitting in versus belonging?
🌈 Are you masking parts of yourself to fit in?
🌟 Or have you found spaces where your true colors are valued?

2️⃣ What do you need to feel like you belong?
🤝 Is it connection?
🧠 A deeper understanding of how your brain works?
💪 Or simply the courage to show up as your authentic self?

3️⃣ What gifts do your unique wiring bring to the world?
🎁 Like Lauper’s song reminds us, your true colors make the world a brighter 🌟, more interesting place.
✨ How does your unique perspective add value to the spaces you’re in?

The Gifts of Being Unique

🎵 “Don’t be afraid to let them show…” 🎵

Brains wired for wonder often bring extraordinary gifts:
💡 Creativity,
🚀 Innovation, and
🔍 A knack for seeing the world differently.

But when these gifts aren’t understood or valued, it’s easy to feel isolated.

Here’s the truth: Your unique wiring isn’t a problem to fix—it’s a strength to be celebrated. 💪 🌟

Belonging doesn’t mean finding just any space—it means finding the right one.

How I Can Help You Thrive

At The Addvocacy Project, I help individuals embrace their true colors 🌈 and create lives where they feel they belong. Through coaching, resources, and a supportive community, I aim to:
🌟 Help you understand and celebrate how your brain works.
🎯 Show you how to harness your unique gifts in ways that feel empowering.
🏡 Support you in creating environments that align with your authentic self.

🎵 “If this world makes you crazy and you’ve taken all you can bear…” 🎵
You don’t have to navigate it alone. Let’s work together to find your space where your true colours can shine. ✨

💡 Which question resonated most with you? You can reply to this email and let me know your thoughts...or even book in for a free clarity call. I’d love to help you discover how your uniqueness can become your greatest strength.

Warm regards,

Caroline Beresford